Men, Love & Laws of Attraction In Relationships
The Confusion of The
Law of Attraction.
Does It Work, Don`t It
Work?
People are
now in two minds whether the Law of Attraction really works. The reason why
people are actually in two minds is because essentially they are back and forth
with two opposing concepts. Your inner being resonates completely with the
concept of the Law of Attraction because the concept makes sense. It makes
complete sense as the Law of Attraction is real. But the doubt arises as shit
aint happen. No manifesting occurs.
That does
not mean it is not real and doesn’t work.
Take
Beyonce. She became successful from following her passion which lead to the Law
of Attraction giving her abundance. Beyonce did not study Law of Attraction to
get famous, she simply followed her bliss. Most people don`t become famous as
they genuinely prefer fame and cash first over becoming an actor or singer. Now
that is not saying they don’t want to be an actor or singer but you must state
your “true” intension foremost and resonate truly with that desire internally
if not it will create opposing opposites internally and cannot be created
externally.
The confusion
of Law of Attraction also is that apparent negative things “show up” instead of
abundance. I can pretty much guarantee that negativity is to serve you. Then my
friend it will lead you to your manifesting your desire. But people stop at the
negative and then think Law of Attraction don`t work. For Example: If you
desire the best loving happy relationship then Law of Attraction is of higher
intelligence so will see your flaws and bring to you a “negative” relationship
so that you learn hard lessons from it. THEN... bring you your desired
relationship of which you should have learned what you did not want from that
negative relationship to now transfer all of your best self to the new
relationship. So in essence the Law of Attraction then can bring to you your
very best relationship as it sees that for you to have the very best, first,
you have to have the worse. So the law of attraction delivered. People get
stuck in the negative relationship and don`t open up to the next love match and
miss out bigtime.
Men &
Relationships
Basically
why I wrote this is for guys who are not “asking” for their truth. Men these
days are still limited and still expected to place their emotions inwardly in
one tiny box. A “Suck it in” mentality forced inappropriately from human
conditions, expectations, religion and beliefs systems so I get it. But this is exactly why you are “attracting”
negative relationships. In short.... You have to be vulnerable! Vulnerable to
yourself by setting your intension and being ok with asking for a real love,
happy ever after relationship... THEN... once your love match is received, to
then become vulnerable within that relationship. If not you will constantly attract
a negative relationship after negative relationship.
Men are
Logical thinkers Women are Emotional
And here`s
one last thing to ponder on. Men are more logical minded then women so are not
so much about showing or expressing their emotions, but your women is more
emotional. So for you not to express your emotions and open up to your partner
will be detrimental to yourself and also your relationship as your partner
needs that from you as she is more emotional. So you will be actually going
against your partner’s core feelings & identity. Even in gay relationships
there should be an equal balance of masculine and feminine. If you don`t
express what you feel in your
relationship about your partner or the relationship in general but (ask/put
out) to the laws of attraction that you want a loving relationship, then the
laws of attraction will call to you a unloving relationship which matches your
internal frequency of not expressing love. Exactly the example above will show
up for you of a negative love relationship so that you fix up, learn by your
mistakes then attract a new love match or fix your present love partner with
new insight that you must communicate in general but especially your feelings.
In short....
you are what you attract. As stated previously, Beyonce sang first, THEN the
laws of attraction brought fame to her. Don`t expect to get a partner who loves
you but you don`t show or express love back. I repeat..... if you don`t
show/express/own/align with love you wont attract love. You may attract a
relationship of which you may think it to be love but deep down you know it is
not and it will eventually break. Or... even if you fall in true love, by you
not expressing love, that love will eventually subside and become suppressed into
your subconscious ultimately making you lose or fall out of love with your
partner. Any emotion not expressed is going against your truth which is not
only harmful to your relationship but most definitely harmful to you.
So yes
absolutely the Law of Attraction does work it simply you need to know more
about it and how it serves you to receive the full benefits.
More on Law
of Attraction in my FREE Ebook coming soon.
Sophia x
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